A final kiss shared with a deceased loved one can be emotionally powerful, offering closure and connection during times of grief. However, under specific conditions, it may carry unexpected health risks.
Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a physician from Moldova known for his popular TikTok health advice, recently went viral for issuing a warning about this deeply personal act. His concern centers on cases where the deceased may have passed away from an infectious illness.
While rare, it is possible for certain bacteria or viruses to remain active in the body for a short time after death. In some cases, these lingering pathogens could pose a health risk to those in close contact—especially through direct physical gestures like kissing.
Diseases such as tuberculosis, hepatitis, and some types of fevers can occasionally survive post-mortem and have the potential to spread, particularly if proper precautions aren’t taken. During public health outbreaks, experts are especially cautious about close contact with the deceased.
Many cultural and religious traditions encourage farewell gestures such as kissing or holding the hand of the deceased. These customs offer emotional comfort and a sense of goodbye. But modern medical advice encourages balancing those traditions with safety, particularly when the cause of death involves infection.
Dr. Ivanovik’s warning sparked discussion online, especially among those who had never considered the possible risks of saying goodbye in this way. While most situations are safe, experts recommend asking a medical professional or funeral director if there’s any doubt.
Instead of a final kiss, safer alternatives include placing a flower on the body, writing a farewell note, or lighting a candle in memory. These gestures can be just as meaningful without the potential health concerns.
Ultimately, the love, respect, and remembrance we offer our lost loved ones are what matter most. It’s not about the exact act of goodbye, but the intention behind it. Staying informed while honoring tradition helps ensure both emotional healing and physical safety for those left behind.
